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Its a bouncing 115 pound baby girl......

 
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ohman
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10 06 7:14 am    Post subject: Its a bouncing 115 pound baby girl...... Reply with quote

To make a long story short........19 years ago my x-wife took off with my daughter who was only 1 year old at the time. I have been meaning to post this for quite sometime now....Anyway I found her and here is a pic of her, we are talking and very slowly trying to put things back together.....Sorry if this is the wrong place to post this.

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10 06 7:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Congrats Ohman, thats fantastic! Hard to make up for lost time but best wishes in building a strong relationship Wink
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10 06 7:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Congrats!!! That is really cool.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10 06 8:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Congrats!!!!!!That is great that you can get to start to know your daughter.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10 06 8:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes I agree you you guys it is cool, I have a hard time not saying anything about what her mother did but so far I have done well.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10 06 9:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wow! I'd ignore the mother and get to know your daughter. Good luck! Oh!, serve her some of your brisket!
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10 06 9:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ohman, I'm glad you've got her back! I went thru a divorce, and it messed with my daughters lives big time! Just let her know you love her, and don't even bring up the ex...your daughter probably knows a lot of the stuff, and doesn't need to be reminded. Just love her. Best wishes Bud!
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10 06 11:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ohman:

Your a lucky guy dude, you have been given a second chance with your daughter and thats rare. As orthers have said, keep the past in the past, your better than to trash your ex and besides, ask yourself, why does your kid need to know what happened, all she needs to know is you care and what kind of a person you are. Treat each and every day you get to spend with that beautiful young woman as a gift. Things happen for a reason some folks say and maybe the time you spent apart was so you could be truely appreciative for the time you now have. If that makes sense.

I too have gone through a real messy break up, it cost me every thing I had and then some to have my daughter and not just her memory.

I wound wish ya luck, dont think you need it, be thankfull.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10 06 11:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

That's great ohman. I hope everything goes well for you getting to know her. You said you've talked to her a little. Does she like Q. Nothing bonds people like some ribs!
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10 06 11:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Doc..that reminds me..where's the ribs,pork, and brisket you promised me????? Just wishful thinking!!
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10 06 12:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ohman.....that is awesome brother!
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10 06 2:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thats Great ohman
I`m happy for ya. I`m a firm believer in "what goes around comes around" Nows YOUR time. 15 years ago my wifes ex-husband some how managed to get her boy away from her and by the time the kid was 18 he couldn`t stand the old man and couldn`t wait to move in with us. Long story short "what goes around comes around" Know what i mean. Wink
Good luck.......
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10 06 8:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thats is great ohman, consider yourself very lucky.... It is not to often you get a second chance at anything. Hope you enjoy it.

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10 06 9:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good for both of you! Enjoy! Very Happy
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10 06 9:45 pm    Post subject: OhMan Reply with quote

OhMan,
Life is GOOD!!!! A fresh start with your daughter is a wonderful thing. The best of luck at becoming the BEST of friends!!!!!!
Smoke for her!!!!!! That will really seal the deal on a freindship.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10 06 10:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Your a lucky guy. She is a beautiful girl. I wish Dad and Daughter the very best for the future!
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